Good News / Bad News

Good News: Dylan pooped on the potty last night. This is ground breaking news in our house. He has been peeing consistently since March, but the pooping just eluded him. Well, we have been encouraging him to "toot-toot" (i.e. fart) when he is sitting on the potty and he loves to do it. Thinks it is the funniest thing ever. Well, last night Jason convinced him to "toot-toot" and POOP came out. He was so excited. He got two presents (I have been promising him for weeks that if he would poop on the potty, he could get two presents). Bribery really is a good thing.

Bad News: It looks like the loan for the people buying our house may be falling apart. The lender is trying to figure something out that will work for both parties. I am just going to hate it if we have to put off buying our new house and if we have to put our current house back on the market. P&PT if you have any to spare.

Band for a Lifetime:
Choose a band/artist and answer ONLY in titles of their songs.

1. Are you male or female? Something In The Way She Moves

2. Describe yourself. Night Owl

3. How do some people feel about you? Steamroller

4. How do you feel about yourself? Long Ago And Far Away

5. Describe your ex: Bitter Sweet

6. Describe your current significant other: Your Smiling Face

7. Describe where you want to be: Anywhere Like Heaven

8. Describe how you live: Traffic Jam

9. Describe how you love: Fire And Rain

10. What would you ask for if you had just one wish? Enough To Be On Your Way

11. Share a few words of wisdom: Shower the People

12. Now say goodbye: You Can Close Your Eyes

Deep Breaths

Okay, so it is really just hitting me that we have approximately 3 weeks to pack up our house. I know it can be done, but we still have to live here while we are packing up - you know.

So, the game plan so far is to pack up the garage first (because this is where everything will be stored in the meantime and we won't be able to get to anything if we don't do it first), then the nursery and the office. Then we can start packing up non-essential stuff from our and Dylan's rooms. We are hiring movers to help with the heavy stuff, so the majority of the furniture will stay in place until they move it down.

In the midst of all of this, we are having Dylan's b-day party. Luckily, we only planned for it to be a family party this year, so it won't be too stressful.

Oh, yeah, and we are leaving for a week vacation in Vegas 1 week after we move. Hopefully, things will be under control enough so that we can enjoy our vacation.

And, hooray for my SIL who offerred to keep Dylan this weekend so we can get a head start on the packing. She is also keeping Dylan the week we go to Vegas. I am thinking we will be getting her a pretty nice gift.

Crazy, crazy times . . .

So, we have a contract on our existing house. We were only on the market 8 days. CRAZY, I tell ya. We are set to close on June 2.

We have changed our minds about which house we want to purchase and will be signing a new contract tomorrow. The new house is right next door to the old one. LOL!! Here is the new house and the floorplan:

We Signed a Contract Today . . .

If all goes according to plan, this will be our new home in the next couple of months or so . . .

House Hunting

So, it looks like we are buying a new house.

We went on a Sunday drive last weekend and visited a nice, new neighborhood. We had been there before and thought we would love to live there. Well, it turns out that we can afford it.

So, since Sunday we have decided to sell our house and buy a new one. I don't know how long this process will take or anything, but I am scared and excited at the same time.

Please send us "easy home selling" vibes.

Splish Splash

Dylan has his first swimming lesson tomorrow. I actually convinced Jason that he should be the one in the pool with Dylan (I am one smart momma - LOL).

I will let you know how it goes. Dylan seems to be really excited about it, so I hope he doesn't freak out when we get to the pool.

This is where we are going for the lessons:

http://www.swimatlanta.com/

They actually have swim teams and compete at meets. Some of the swimmers they have trained have gone on to be part of the Olympic swim teams. That, however, is not my goal for Dylan. I just want him to be more comfortable in the water and get a little exposure to the pool.

More to follow (and pictures too). . .

I Have An Announcement To Make . . .

I am so freakin' tired.

That is all.

The Potty Dance

I just have to share that Dylan has been in underwear since last Tuesday. He has been wearing it to daycare and has had minimal accidents. I still put a pullup on him at night, but he has only woken up wet 2 nights since we started this process. It's like putting the underwear on him made it just click for him (and offering 2 jellybeans for a pee in the potty and 4 for a poop in the potty probably didn't hurt either). YEAH, DYLAN!!!

Last week was spring break here. Traditionally, a lot of kids don't go to daycare during spring break. On Monday, I asked Dylan's teacher if we could send him to school in underwear because he was doing well for us on the weekends. She said yes and we haven't looked back. The first couple of days he had one or two accidents a day. Toward the end of the week, he was really getting the hang of it. I even set up a "treasure box" with some cheap toys so he can pick one prize out for each accident free day at daycare (the first day he wore underwear to daycare he got a prize just for trying so hard). However, anytime we put him back in a pullup, he has no desire to potty. He knows the difference without a doubt.

He still won't poop on the potty, but when I put his nighttime pullup on him he goes almost immediately. I know that it will happen in time. And, since he's not pooping in his underwear, I really don't mind that much that he waits for a pullup. At least he's going and not getting constipated.

I know we will still probably have some accidents along the way (who doesn't??), but I am so proud of my little guy.

We Just Bought a New (to us) Car

We got a good deal on the Jeep (photo is not of our actual Jeep, but the year, model, and color are the same) and we got what we wanted on our trade in.

And, best of all, we pay it off in 2 years.



Last week, the "service engine soon" light in the Maxima came on. We had diagnostics run and it was going to cost over $1000 to fix. Add that to the new tires we needed and the service that would need to be performed in the next couple of months (approaching 90,000 miles), it just seemed like the perfect time to trade it in.

I haven't actually seen the Jeep yet. Jason and I discussed our options last night and he bought it today. I have to sign some papers tomorrow, but the deal is essentially final.

We Went to the Zoo

With all of the turmoil surrounding my nephew last week, I forgot to write about our trip to the zoo. We went on Saturday, March 18. Jason, Dylan, myself, FIL and FIL's girlfriend went. SIL, BIL, and nephew were supposed to go too, but that was the day nephew was admitted to the hospital. (BTW, SIL told us to go on to the zoo because it would be hours before we could see her or nephew - for those of you who might think we were heartless to continue on to the zoo with nephew in the hospital).

Dylan had a blast and I think we saw every animal that lives at the zoo. Here are a couple of pics from our trip.
















Dylan @ the petting zoo
















Dylan studying about the pandas















Dylan and a big lizard















Dylan and Poppy (Jason's dad)















Dylan and Gigi (Poppy's girlfriend)


Dylan loved the otters and pandas the best. The lions weren't very exciting because they were asleep. The gorillas weren't very active either; though they did have a couple of babies that were entertaining. He had a blast at the petting zoo. It amazes me sometimes how much my shy little guy is coming out of his shell. He wasn't thrilled with the snakes (or anything else in the reptile house). He rode the train (all 3 minutes of it) and he rode on the endangered species carousel. All in all, Dylan had a blast and we will definitely be going back. I am sure he will love showing his cousin around.

Update on Nephew

He is going home today. He was diagnosed with RSV (apparently it was something different last time he was in the hospital and MIL got mixed up when she passed the information on to me), in addition to several other respiratory conditions (SIL said that there are about 6 or 7 official diagnosises on the discharge papers). But he has been off of oxygen for 24 hours and doing great. The doctor still fully expects to see them back in the hospital in the next couple of months simply due to the compromised state of his lungs at this time.

My nephew (10 mo) is sick

Saturday he was taken in a helicopter to the hospital because he wasn't stable enough for an ambulance ride. His breathing was labored and he was becoming lethargic. He spent Saturday and most of Sunday in the ICU and has been in a regular room since Sunday night (but every time they take him off of oxygen, his oxygen levels drop). He has (in the past month or so) been diagnosed with RSV and was diagnosed with croup upon admission to the hospital. Now, the doctors are 98% sure he has Achalasia of the Esophagus and Bronchial Tubes and this is why he is so susceptible to all of the respiratory problems. He should outgrow this by 14-18 months, but the doctor said he fully expects at least one more hospital stay in that time.

So, any P&PT would be appreciated and if you know anything about this diagnosis, I would love to hear about it.

What I Need/Want To Do Tomorrow (On My Day Off)

• grocery shopping
• sign Dylan up for swimming lessons (and then I may have to take on the agonizing task of finding a new suit - I'm thinking boycut this year - LOL!!)
• laundry
• put away the 6 or 7 baskets of already clean, folded laundry
• put clean sheets on the futon (guest bed)
• declutter as much as possible
• get my hair thinned (and maybe trimmed)

Jason's dad and girlfriend are coming to visit this weekend. And, you know, nothing gets your house cleaned and straightened like guests.

I really am looking forward to my day tomorrow, even though it is going to be quite busy. This is the first time in I-don't-know-how-long that I am taking a day off without having to take care of a sick kid/hubby/self.

Saturday, we (Me, Jason, Dylan, FIL, FIL's GF, SIL, BIL, DN) are going to the zoo. Dylan is so excited. I am taking my camera, so I hope to have pictures to share next week. Have a good weekend.

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Interesting . . .

American Cities That Best Fit You:

80% Austin

75% Atlanta

70% Miami

65% Denver

65% Las Vegas

Which American Cities Best Fit You?

Well, it's good to know that I live somewhere that "fits" me. Very interesting.

What I (We) Did This Weekend

• Touched up the ceiling and door frames in the guest bathroom (we painted it about a year ago, I never finished the ceiling)
• Touched up the ceiling and door frames in the office (same time frame as the guest bath)
• Hung curtains in Dylan's room
• Hung a stuffed animal cage in Dylan's room
• Hung curtains in the dining room
• Hung curtains in the family room
• Framed some photos
• Copied some photos
• Tried to hand above photos, but the screws supplied with the frames wouldn't work
• Weeded front flower beds
• Weeded one of the rear flower beds (This one bed probably took me an hour and a half. It was bad.)
• Dylan dug in his sandbox (and in the flower beds a little) and played on his slide (He played outside for over 3 hours yesterday, it is probably the longest stretch of independant play he has ever had. Of course, we were outside with him at all times. But he did his thing and we did ours.)
• Jason (and Dylan) went to SC to pick up a jet ski for FIL's girlfriend
• Jason pressure washed the entire house (or at least as far up as he could reach using our ladder).
• Jason cleaned up Dylan's pool (Yes, it was still up from last summer and was quite nasty. We just never got around to putting it away and were debating whether or not we should just toss it.)
• Jason painted some of the trim around the house
• Jason painted the mailbox and the mailbox post

All in all, a very busy and productive weekend.

Um . . . okay

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50 Things About Me

1. Until I went to college, I had only lived in one house.
2. Since I went to college, I have lived in 2 dorm rooms, 2 apartments, 1 townhouse, and 1 house.
3. My first memory is my mom being pregnant with my little brother and feeling him kick.
4. Other than this memory, I have no recollection of being an only child.
5. My “little” brother is 3 years, 10 months, and 2 weeks younger than me and he is about 6 feet tall.
6. Growing up, I didn’t realize how little money my parents had.
7. Now, I really wonder how the heck they made it.
8. Now that I work and am a mom, I don’t understand how my mom had time to cook dinner every night.
9. I do, however, realize it was a necessity since we couldn’t just go out to pick up dinner (see # 4 and because we lived about 15-20 miles away from the closest fast food joint).
10. I went to a private school K – 3rd grade.
11. My grandmother was the school secretary at the school that I went to in 4th grade.
12. That might be the only reason I was able to survive the transition.
13. I learned how to shoot a gun when I was in 6th or 7th grade.
14. I killed a deer when I was in 7th grade.
15. I don’t think I ever went hunting again. I wasn’t traumatized or anything, I just hated getting up that early in the morning.
16. I still hate getting up early in the morning.
17. I hate surprises.
18. The most angry I have ever been at my dad (disregarding all things divorce related) was when he planned a surprise party for me for my 16th birthday. I didn’t speak to him for days.
19. I had 3 different cars before I graduated from high school: an Oldsmobile Cutlas Supreme (burned up in a garage fire), a Dodge Daytona (wrecked), and a Pontiac Le Mans (wrecked, but not until after graduation).
20. I was valedictorian of my graduating class (Class of 1995).
21. I hated high school and almost didn’t walk for graduation.
22. Someone convinced me that if I didn’t walk I would regret it (and I was supposed to give a speech).
23. I now know I wouldn’t have regretted not walking, but I don’t regret walking either. It’s just a non-issue.
24. I said as soon as I graduated that I wouldn’t go to any reunions.
25. I didn’t go to my 10year reunion.
26. I didn’t walk for my college graduations (B.B.A. or M.B.A.).
27. I don’t regret it.
28. If any of my children ever ask me if it’s okay if they don’t walk for any graduation, I will still probably try to convince them to do it.
29. The only friends that I have remained in contact with from middle school, high school, or college are guys or family.
30. When I graduated from college in May 1999 (B.B.A), I swore I would never go back to school.
31. I started my M.B.A. in January 2001, at night while working full-time.
32. I finished my M.B.A. in July 2002.
33. I enjoyed my M.B.A. classes 10x more than my B.B.A. classes.
34. I prefer to have a man as a boss. It’s just an added bonus if he has kids.
35. I hate to be micromanaged.
36. I have a messed-up self-image.
37. Growing up, I was always concerned about my weight. Looking back now, I shouldn’t have worried about it because (with the exception of my fashion choices) I looked pretty good most of the time. As a matter of fact, the times that I thought I was at my best weight, I actually looked like a skeleton (and I still thought it wouldn’t hurt to lose another 10 lbs.).
38. As sad as it is, I used to always wish I had to the will power to be anorexic to lose weight and then be able to stop.
39. I didn’t realize that it doesn’t work that way.
40. I am grateful now that I didn’t go down that road.
41. Since I have graduated from college, I have had 4 jobs.
42. I have never worked less than 1 year or more than 2 years at any of those jobs.
43. I have been at my current job for 2 years as of last week.
44. Because of this (among other things), I am wondering if it is time to look for a new job.
45. I didn’t realize how much I would love my children until Dylan was born.
46. When he was in the hospital after he was born (premature), I would get extremely pissed off when my MIL would freely admit she didn’t want to get attached to him in case something bad happened.
47. I never believed anything bad would happen. I knew he would come home and he would be fine (I just didn’t know when).
48. I worry about the transition from 1 child to 2 children, but I can’t wait to make it.
49. I don’t have an opinion on a lot of issues.
50. This bothers my husband.
    

Catching Up . . .

• Work is crazy.
• Dylan is sick. He has some kind of virus. It has made him pretty miserable and crazy tired. This (Thursday) is his first day back at school. We tried to go to school on Tuesday, but he wasn't quite up to it.
• Work is crazy.
• Daycare just called and Dylan has had diarreha twice in the past hour. He is on augmentin, so that is the reason and he can stay, but I hate getting calls that my baby doesn't feel good. And I hate that the teachers have to clean him up.
• Work is crazy.

But tomorrow is Friday and next week will be better. Right?!?! Right?!?!